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Occasional thoughts on faith and every day life in Michigan and overseas
Ruth's Reflections


Creating Thanksgiving in China
Thanksgiving is probably my favorite holiday. I love the memories from when I was young and all my aunts, uncles, and cousins gathered...
ruthlemmen
Nov 26, 2017


Every Lament Is a Love-Song
“Every lament is a love-song.” –Nick Wolterstorff, Lament for a Son, pg. 6 I’ve been crying a lot in the last few days. Its a little...
ruthlemmen
Jun 15, 2016


Invest and Delight
A year ago, encouraged by Velvet Ashes, I picked a word for 2015. I honestly wasn’t completely sold on picking one word, so I didn’t...
ruthlemmen
Jan 2, 2016


Happy Mid-Autumn Festival
中秋节快乐! zhōng qiū jié kuài lè ! Happy Mid-Autumn Festival! A few weeks ago (September 27), we celebrated Mid-Autumn Festival, one of...
ruthlemmen
Oct 7, 2015


How I Ate Chicken Feet in My Own Apartment
I ate chicken feet (okay, a chicken foot) in my own apartment. Chicken feet are on my list of things I’d rather not eat because of their...
ruthlemmen
May 9, 2015


Sunday Prayer: Grief Is A Strong Word
I was talking to a friend and apologized for the grief that my decision to go overseas is causing everyone. She said, “grief is a strong...
ruthlemmen
Sep 14, 2014


Go-With-God
Goodbye. It has such finality. There’s so much longing and sadness. And yet, it is inevitable. We all say goodbye to people and places...
ruthlemmen
Aug 7, 2014


The Transition Bridge
I don’t like transitions. The past year or so of my life has been full of them; I am approaching the one year mark since I was finished...
ruthlemmen
Jul 22, 2014


On the Weight of Stuff
I’ve been spending hours sorting through boxes and piles of my earthly belongings. Pots and pans, dishes, spatulas, potato mashers,...
ruthlemmen
Jun 17, 2014
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