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Occasional thoughts on faith and every day life in Michigan and overseas
Ruth's Reflections


A new home
My blog has a new home, here on my new website! Welcome! I haven't written much in the last few years through reentry. This past...
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Jan 21, 2023


Life Lessons from Watercolor
I’ve long loved the look of watercolor painting and wished I could do it myself. Seeing a friend share some of her beginning watercolor...
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Sep 2, 2020


Sleeping Bear Dunes 2020
Peterson Beach With What I Think Are Pitcher Thistles, a Threatened Species Native to Great Lakes Dunes “We have traveled this day / to...
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Aug 23, 2020


Let Love Clasp Grief
“Let Love clasp Grief lest both be drown’d” –“In Memoriam A.H.H.” stanza 1, Lord Alfred Tennyson Love clasping grief as I said goodbye to...
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Jun 6, 2020


The Spiritual Discipline of a Slow Spring
A couple of years ago, I arrived back in Beijing on about March 17. A few days later, I noticed that the lilac bushes in my apartment...
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May 2, 2020


Power Tools or Vulnerability Tools
In my first class for my middle school students, I showed the students these two photos. I asked them which one they would choose if...
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Sep 28, 2019


Return Slowly
“Return Slowly” sign at The Hermitage Community Last week, I heard a story. There was once a group of Western scientists that wanted to...
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Jul 23, 2019


Often the Stranger
A couple weeks ago, I read “Never the Stranger” by Kate Kooyman on The Twelve blog about not just offering, but receiving hospitality. ...
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Mar 13, 2019


A Christmas Dream
I woke up early on Christmas morning. It wasn’t because I was excited to open gifts or see my family. I woke up early out of an intense...
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Dec 25, 2018


Death of a Dream
The day I enjoyed the tulips, I also saw something that made my heart heavy: a “marriage market.” I’d heard of this phenomenon in China,...
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May 4, 2018


The End of Lent
After six weeks, Lent came to an end yesterday. It was a long and hard season for me. I started out in the U.S., waiting for visa...
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Apr 2, 2018


Wait for the Lord {free advent printable}
When I was going through the hard time I wrote about a few weeks ago–which felt a bit like a long season of Advent waiting–one of the...
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Dec 8, 2017


Every Lament Is a Love-Song
“Every lament is a love-song.” –Nick Wolterstorff, Lament for a Son, pg. 6 I’ve been crying a lot in the last few days. Its a little...
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Jun 15, 2016


Living Palms Up
This post is a reflection on what living in China is teaching me about Lent—the six weeks when the church remembers the suffering and...
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Mar 22, 2016


Invest and Delight
A year ago, encouraged by Velvet Ashes, I picked a word for 2015. I honestly wasn’t completely sold on picking one word, so I didn’t...
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Jan 2, 2016


My First High Speed Train Trip
I recently took a trip and we traveled by the high speed train, sometimes known as a bullet train. This was my first bullet train ride...
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May 15, 2015


It Is Finished
“When he had received the drink, Jesus said, ‘It is finished.” John 19:30 As I look back over the season of Lent, these words are helping...
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Apr 3, 2015


“Welcome Home”
“Welcome home,” a friend greeted me when I got back to Beijing from my travels. It was a good feeling, to be welcomed back to this...
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Feb 17, 2015


Christmas with Chinese Characteristics: On Not Understanding
During Advent, I spent time with two of my favorite Biblical characters: Zechariah and Elizabeth. This was an ordinary Israelite couple...
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Dec 19, 2014


Photographing the Neighborhood: An Altar in the World
“All it takes is the decision to walk with some awareness, both of who you are and what you are doing” (An Altar in the World, Barbara...
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Nov 10, 2014
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