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Occasional thoughts on faith and every day life in Michigan and overseas
Ruth's Reflections


Food and Formation
One way I’ve been dealing with my re-entry shock and our isolation is by experimenting with cooking Chinese food. I didn’t cook Chinese...
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May 14, 2020


Power Tools or Vulnerability Tools
In my first class for my middle school students, I showed the students these two photos. I asked them which one they would choose if...
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Sep 28, 2019


Often the Stranger
A couple weeks ago, I read “Never the Stranger” by Kate Kooyman on The Twelve blog about not just offering, but receiving hospitality. ...
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Mar 13, 2019


You Know You Live in China When
There’s a metaphor in cross-cultural training that goes something like this: your home culture is a yellow culture and has yellow ways to...
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Jun 22, 2018


Staying, Leaving, and Loud Emotions
There is a familiar rhythm to this time of year in the expat world: it is saying goodbye time. Many people conclude their time overseas...
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Jun 9, 2018


Curly Hair Chronicles: Cutting My Own Hair
My naturally curly hair and Beijing are not on good terms. The weather is not ideal for curls–too dry in the winter and too humid in the...
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May 18, 2018


Death of a Dream
The day I enjoyed the tulips, I also saw something that made my heart heavy: a “marriage market.” I’d heard of this phenomenon in China,...
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May 4, 2018


Creating Thanksgiving in China
Thanksgiving is probably my favorite holiday. I love the memories from when I was young and all my aunts, uncles, and cousins gathered...
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Nov 26, 2017


Living As An Acceptable Outsider
On my last trip to the Great Wall, about five minutes after I arrived at the top of the wall, a kid (maybe about 12) mustered up the...
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Aug 18, 2017


Matchmaker, Matchmaker
Matchmaking is alive and well in China. Not through an official matchmaker, but through everyone’s efforts, especially those over 50....
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May 17, 2017


Dumpling Recipe
One of my favorite memories from the time I was in the U.S. this fall was teaching several groups of people to make Chinese dumplings....
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Feb 21, 2017


A Crash Course on Moving in China
My first project after returning to China was finding a new apartment. The landlord of my previous apartment sold it, so I couldn’t...
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Feb 16, 2017


The Green Beans Recipe
Every time I post about my attempts to cook Chinese food, American friends who have lived in China ask about The Green Beans. This dish...
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Aug 3, 2016


Spring in Beijing
Spring has arrived in Beijing! Actually, we had a day or two this past week that felt like summer was about to arrive (but most people...
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Apr 2, 2016


Christmas is Like Spring Festival, Right?
Spring Festival (aka Chinese New Year) comes to an official end on Monday. Throughout these weeks, a couple people have said something...
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Feb 19, 2016


Invest and Delight
A year ago, encouraged by Velvet Ashes, I picked a word for 2015. I honestly wasn’t completely sold on picking one word, so I didn’t...
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Jan 2, 2016


It Snowed in Beijing!
Last winter, I saw snow on the ground ONCE, and it wasn’t very much snow. Winter was cold and dry. After surviving the previous winter,...
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Nov 22, 2015


This Is China
Foreigners in China have a phrase, “this is China,” sometimes abbreviated T.I.C. It is usually used to describe situations that don’t go...
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Nov 19, 2015


Happy Mid-Autumn Festival
中秋节快乐! zhōng qiū jié kuài lè ! Happy Mid-Autumn Festival! A few weeks ago (September 27), we celebrated Mid-Autumn Festival, one of...
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Oct 7, 2015


Unexpected T-shirts: Take 2
Earlier this summer I shared the top 10 unexpected t-shirts I had seen to that point. After I posted it, I kept seeing interesting...
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Sep 19, 2015
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