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Occasional thoughts on faith and every day life in Michigan and overseas
Ruth's Reflections


A new home
My blog has a new home, here on my new website! Welcome! I haven't written much in the last few years through reentry. This past...
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Jan 21, 2023


Going Back to Normal: Lessons from Re-entry
I keep hearing people talk about things “going back to normal” soon. Spoiler alert: I don’t think we’re going to back to normal. I...
ruthlemmen
May 10, 2021


Life Lessons from Watercolor
I’ve long loved the look of watercolor painting and wished I could do it myself. Seeing a friend share some of her beginning watercolor...
ruthlemmen
Sep 2, 2020


My Re-entry Good List
Re-entry is hard, in many ways even harder than living overseas. In re-entry, you are trying to sort out a massive change in identity,...
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Aug 27, 2020


Where Are You From? Where Are You Local?
There’s a question I’ve come to dread in my life: “Where are you from?” I’ve been asked this question many times by many people, in...
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Jul 16, 2020


Let Love Clasp Grief
“Let Love clasp Grief lest both be drown’d” –“In Memoriam A.H.H.” stanza 1, Lord Alfred Tennyson Love clasping grief as I said goodbye to...
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Jun 6, 2020


Food and Formation
One way I’ve been dealing with my re-entry shock and our isolation is by experimenting with cooking Chinese food. I didn’t cook Chinese...
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May 14, 2020


The Spiritual Discipline of a Slow Spring
A couple of years ago, I arrived back in Beijing on about March 17. A few days later, I noticed that the lilac bushes in my apartment...
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May 2, 2020


Return Slowly
“Return Slowly” sign at The Hermitage Community Last week, I heard a story. There was once a group of Western scientists that wanted to...
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Jul 23, 2019


Staying, Leaving, and Loud Emotions
There is a familiar rhythm to this time of year in the expat world: it is saying goodbye time. Many people conclude their time overseas...
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Jun 9, 2018


Sunday Prayer: On the Transition Bridge
Today’s prayer is inspired by the concept of the transition bridge and Psalm 46. You are my “refuge and strength, an ever-present help in...
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Aug 3, 2014


The Transition Bridge
I don’t like transitions. The past year or so of my life has been full of them; I am approaching the one year mark since I was finished...
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Jul 22, 2014
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