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Occasional thoughts on faith and every day life in Michigan and overseas
Ruth's Reflections


My Re-entry Good List
Re-entry is hard, in many ways even harder than living overseas. In re-entry, you are trying to sort out a massive change in identity,...
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Aug 27, 2020


Where Are You From? Where Are You Local?
There’s a question I’ve come to dread in my life: “Where are you from?” I’ve been asked this question many times by many people, in...
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Jul 16, 2020


Let Love Clasp Grief
“Let Love clasp Grief lest both be drown’d” –“In Memoriam A.H.H.” stanza 1, Lord Alfred Tennyson Love clasping grief as I said goodbye to...
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Jun 6, 2020


Food and Formation
One way I’ve been dealing with my re-entry shock and our isolation is by experimenting with cooking Chinese food. I didn’t cook Chinese...
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May 14, 2020


You Know You Live in China When
There’s a metaphor in cross-cultural training that goes something like this: your home culture is a yellow culture and has yellow ways to...
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Jun 22, 2018


Creating Thanksgiving in China
Thanksgiving is probably my favorite holiday. I love the memories from when I was young and all my aunts, uncles, and cousins gathered...
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Nov 26, 2017


Living As An Acceptable Outsider
On my last trip to the Great Wall, about five minutes after I arrived at the top of the wall, a kid (maybe about 12) mustered up the...
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Aug 18, 2017


Dumpling Recipe
One of my favorite memories from the time I was in the U.S. this fall was teaching several groups of people to make Chinese dumplings....
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Feb 21, 2017


The Green Beans Recipe
Every time I post about my attempts to cook Chinese food, American friends who have lived in China ask about The Green Beans. This dish...
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Aug 3, 2016


Iced Chai Latte Recipe
One of my favorite summer drinks is an iced chai latte, especially from Panera, especially when combined with a cinnamon crunch bagel...
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May 29, 2015


How I Ate Chicken Feet in My Own Apartment
I ate chicken feet (okay, a chicken foot) in my own apartment. Chicken feet are on my list of things I’d rather not eat because of their...
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May 9, 2015
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