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Occasional thoughts on faith and every day life in Michigan and overseas
Ruth's Reflections


Going Back to Normal: Lessons from Re-entry
I keep hearing people talk about things “going back to normal” soon. Spoiler alert: I don’t think we’re going to back to normal. I...
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May 10, 2021


Where Are You From? Where Are You Local?
There’s a question I’ve come to dread in my life: “Where are you from?” I’ve been asked this question many times by many people, in...
ruthlemmen
Jul 16, 2020


Food and Formation
One way I’ve been dealing with my re-entry shock and our isolation is by experimenting with cooking Chinese food. I didn’t cook Chinese...
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May 14, 2020


You Know You Live in China When
There’s a metaphor in cross-cultural training that goes something like this: your home culture is a yellow culture and has yellow ways to...
ruthlemmen
Jun 22, 2018


Death of a Dream
The day I enjoyed the tulips, I also saw something that made my heart heavy: a “marriage market.” I’d heard of this phenomenon in China,...
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May 4, 2018


Living As An Acceptable Outsider
On my last trip to the Great Wall, about five minutes after I arrived at the top of the wall, a kid (maybe about 12) mustered up the...
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Aug 18, 2017


Matchmaker, Matchmaker
Matchmaking is alive and well in China. Not through an official matchmaker, but through everyone’s efforts, especially those over 50....
ruthlemmen
May 17, 2017


Happy New Year!
Happy New Year, everyone! The traditional Chinese calendar is a lunisolar calendar, and today is the first day of the New Year. (Note:...
ruthlemmen
Feb 19, 2015
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