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Occasional thoughts on faith and every day life in Michigan and overseas
Ruth's Reflections


Going Back to Normal: Lessons from Re-entry
I keep hearing people talk about things “going back to normal” soon. Spoiler alert: I don’t think we’re going to back to normal. I...
ruthlemmen
May 10, 2021
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Where Are You From? Where Are You Local?
There’s a question I’ve come to dread in my life: “Where are you from?” I’ve been asked this question many times by many people, in...
ruthlemmen
Jul 16, 2020
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Food and Formation
One way I’ve been dealing with my re-entry shock and our isolation is by experimenting with cooking Chinese food. I didn’t cook Chinese...
ruthlemmen
May 14, 2020
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You Know You Live in China When
There’s a metaphor in cross-cultural training that goes something like this: your home culture is a yellow culture and has yellow ways to...
ruthlemmen
Jun 22, 2018
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Death of a Dream
The day I enjoyed the tulips, I also saw something that made my heart heavy: a “marriage market.” I’d heard of this phenomenon in China,...
ruthlemmen
May 4, 2018
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Living As An Acceptable Outsider
On my last trip to the Great Wall, about five minutes after I arrived at the top of the wall, a kid (maybe about 12) mustered up the...
ruthlemmen
Aug 18, 2017
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Matchmaker, Matchmaker
Matchmaking is alive and well in China. Not through an official matchmaker, but through everyone’s efforts, especially those over 50....
ruthlemmen
May 17, 2017
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Happy New Year!
Happy New Year, everyone! The traditional Chinese calendar is a lunisolar calendar, and today is the first day of the New Year. (Note:...
ruthlemmen
Feb 19, 2015
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