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Occasional thoughts on faith and every day life in Michigan and overseas
Ruth's Reflections


Going Back to Normal: Lessons from Re-entry
I keep hearing people talk about things “going back to normal” soon. Spoiler alert: I don’t think we’re going to back to normal. I...
ruthlemmen
May 10, 2021
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Where Are You From? Where Are You Local?
There’s a question I’ve come to dread in my life: “Where are you from?” I’ve been asked this question many times by many people, in...
ruthlemmen
Jul 16, 2020
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Often the Stranger
A couple weeks ago, I read “Never the Stranger” by Kate Kooyman on The Twelve blog about not just offering, but receiving hospitality. ...
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Mar 13, 2019
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You Know You Live in China When
There’s a metaphor in cross-cultural training that goes something like this: your home culture is a yellow culture and has yellow ways to...
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Jun 22, 2018
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Death of a Dream
The day I enjoyed the tulips, I also saw something that made my heart heavy: a “marriage market.” I’d heard of this phenomenon in China,...
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May 4, 2018
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Creating Thanksgiving in China
Thanksgiving is probably my favorite holiday. I love the memories from when I was young and all my aunts, uncles, and cousins gathered...
ruthlemmen
Nov 26, 2017
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Living As An Acceptable Outsider
On my last trip to the Great Wall, about five minutes after I arrived at the top of the wall, a kid (maybe about 12) mustered up the...
ruthlemmen
Aug 18, 2017
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Matchmaker, Matchmaker
Matchmaking is alive and well in China. Not through an official matchmaker, but through everyone’s efforts, especially those over 50....
ruthlemmen
May 17, 2017
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Living Palms Up
This post is a reflection on what living in China is teaching me about Lent—the six weeks when the church remembers the suffering and...
ruthlemmen
Mar 22, 2016
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This Is China
Foreigners in China have a phrase, “this is China,” sometimes abbreviated T.I.C. It is usually used to describe situations that don’t go...
ruthlemmen
Nov 19, 2015
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Living With Honking Horns
Visitor: Is that our bus honking the horn? Experienced with China Friends: (with a shrug of their shoulders) Maybe… Visitor: (trying to...
ruthlemmen
Aug 28, 2015
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Plumbing Problems
When you rent an apartment in China, you can never be totally sure of what might not work properly, what problems might crop up, and what...
ruthlemmen
Jul 17, 2015
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Pineapple Season
A fun thing about living in China is pineapple season! Pineapples aren’t grown in Beijing, but they appear for sale everywhere in the...
ruthlemmen
Mar 31, 2015
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I’ll Hold On: A Song for Language Learning
Back in December, I learned about a new (to me) band called Eine Blume on the Velvet Ashes blog. Their newest album is called Farewell...
ruthlemmen
Mar 27, 2015
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I Finally Got a Haircut!
This weekend, I finally mustered up the courage to get a haircut in Beijing. That’s right, I went over six months without getting my...
ruthlemmen
Mar 25, 2015
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Happy New Year!
Happy New Year, everyone! The traditional Chinese calendar is a lunisolar calendar, and today is the first day of the New Year. (Note:...
ruthlemmen
Feb 19, 2015
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Christmas with Chinese Characteristics: On Not Understanding
During Advent, I spent time with two of my favorite Biblical characters: Zechariah and Elizabeth. This was an ordinary Israelite couple...
ruthlemmen
Dec 19, 2014
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Vulnerability Is Trying To Unlock Someone Else’s Door
When I was preparing to move, people kept telling me I’m really brave. I don’t think of myself as brave. I don’t feel brave. When I...
ruthlemmen
Oct 8, 2014
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