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Occasional thoughts on faith and every day life in Michigan and overseas
Ruth's Reflections


My Re-entry Good List
Re-entry is hard, in many ways even harder than living overseas. In re-entry, you are trying to sort out a massive change in identity,...
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Aug 27, 2020


Return Slowly
“Return Slowly” sign at The Hermitage Community Last week, I heard a story. There was once a group of Western scientists that wanted to...
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Jul 23, 2019


Staying, Leaving, and Loud Emotions
There is a familiar rhythm to this time of year in the expat world: it is saying goodbye time. Many people conclude their time overseas...
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Jun 9, 2018


The End of Lent
After six weeks, Lent came to an end yesterday. It was a long and hard season for me. I started out in the U.S., waiting for visa...
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Apr 2, 2018


A Crash Course on Moving in China
My first project after returning to China was finding a new apartment. The landlord of my previous apartment sold it, so I couldn’t...
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Feb 16, 2017


Sunday Prayer: Grief Is A Strong Word
I was talking to a friend and apologized for the grief that my decision to go overseas is causing everyone. She said, “grief is a strong...
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Sep 14, 2014


Into the Dark and Wonderful Unknown
A few weeks ago I got Ingrid Michaelson’s new album, Lights Out. The refrain of the song “Wonderful Unknown” strikes me every time I...
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Aug 26, 2014


Go-With-God
Goodbye. It has such finality. There’s so much longing and sadness. And yet, it is inevitable. We all say goodbye to people and places...
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Aug 7, 2014


Sunday Prayer: On the Transition Bridge
Today’s prayer is inspired by the concept of the transition bridge and Psalm 46. You are my “refuge and strength, an ever-present help in...
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Aug 3, 2014


The Transition Bridge
I don’t like transitions. The past year or so of my life has been full of them; I am approaching the one year mark since I was finished...
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Jul 22, 2014
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