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Occasional thoughts on faith and every day life in Michigan and overseas
Ruth's Reflections


The End of Lent
After six weeks, Lent came to an end yesterday. It was a long and hard season for me. I started out in the U.S., waiting for visa...
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Apr 2, 2018


Wait for the Lord {free advent printable}
When I was going through the hard time I wrote about a few weeks ago–which felt a bit like a long season of Advent waiting–one of the...
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Dec 8, 2017


Prince Gong’s Mansion
My Chinese class just finished reading an essay about emperor Kangxi, one of China’s greatest emperors. Somehow in our discussion,...
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Dec 5, 2017


Creating Thanksgiving in China
Thanksgiving is probably my favorite holiday. I love the memories from when I was young and all my aunts, uncles, and cousins gathered...
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Nov 26, 2017


Living As An Acceptable Outsider
On my last trip to the Great Wall, about five minutes after I arrived at the top of the wall, a kid (maybe about 12) mustered up the...
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Aug 18, 2017


Matchmaker, Matchmaker
Matchmaking is alive and well in China. Not through an official matchmaker, but through everyone’s efforts, especially those over 50....
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May 17, 2017


Rose Season
Spring comes quickly in Beijing, and quickly proceeds to summer. We hit the upper 80s already at the end of April, as we usually do....
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May 9, 2017


Climbing the Great Wall: Camping Edition
This past weekend was a 3-day holiday in China, for the traditional Tomb Sweeping holiday. I decided to do something that I would find...
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Apr 7, 2017


Dumpling Recipe
One of my favorite memories from the time I was in the U.S. this fall was teaching several groups of people to make Chinese dumplings....
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Feb 21, 2017


A Crash Course on Moving in China
My first project after returning to China was finding a new apartment. The landlord of my previous apartment sold it, so I couldn’t...
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Feb 16, 2017


The Green Beans Recipe
Every time I post about my attempts to cook Chinese food, American friends who have lived in China ask about The Green Beans. This dish...
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Aug 3, 2016


Lotus Festival
Shortly after I arrived in China, I visited Yuanmingyuan (The Old Summer Palace) for the first time. That was in October, and I could...
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Jul 16, 2016


Every Lament Is a Love-Song
“Every lament is a love-song.” –Nick Wolterstorff, Lament for a Son, pg. 6 I’ve been crying a lot in the last few days. Its a little...
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Jun 15, 2016


Spring in Beijing
Spring has arrived in Beijing! Actually, we had a day or two this past week that felt like summer was about to arrive (but most people...
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Apr 2, 2016


Living Palms Up
This post is a reflection on what living in China is teaching me about Lent—the six weeks when the church remembers the suffering and...
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Mar 22, 2016


Christmas is Like Spring Festival, Right?
Spring Festival (aka Chinese New Year) comes to an official end on Monday. Throughout these weeks, a couple people have said something...
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Feb 19, 2016


A Trip to the Mitten
This winter, instead of taking a vacation some place warm and sunny, I took a trip to Michigan. Even though January is arguably one of...
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Feb 15, 2016


Invest and Delight
A year ago, encouraged by Velvet Ashes, I picked a word for 2015. I honestly wasn’t completely sold on picking one word, so I didn’t...
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Jan 2, 2016


It Snowed in Beijing!
Last winter, I saw snow on the ground ONCE, and it wasn’t very much snow. Winter was cold and dry. After surviving the previous winter,...
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Nov 22, 2015


This Is China
Foreigners in China have a phrase, “this is China,” sometimes abbreviated T.I.C. It is usually used to describe situations that don’t go...
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Nov 19, 2015
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